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The Honda Insight, Al-Qaeda, ad hominem thinking, projection, and blogging

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As I was driving down to Menlo Park the other day, I waited at a stoplight behind an old Honda Insight. This was the 2000 Insight that looked a little goofy – in the best way – got great gas mileage, and didn’t sell very well. This Insight had a bumper sticker that said Al-Qaeda hates this car and I thought, That’s wrong, Al-Qaeda loves that car. The bumper sticker was strangely annoying.

At first, it struck me that our different reactions were based on how we see Al-Qaeda sees us. That the bumper sticker indicated that Honda Harry thinks Al-Qaeda hates us because of who we are and I think that Al-Qaeda hates us because of what we do. I think that, if we all drove cars that got great mileage, if we didn’t need middle eastern oil, if we didn’t have troops stationed in Saudi Arabia, Al-Qaeda would be happier.

I understand that Al-Qaeda hates us and if we pulled our troops out of Kazakhstan, Kyrgyzstan, Tajikistan, Turkmenistan, Uzbekistan, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iraq, Kuwait, Jordan, Bahrain, Yeman, Egypt, Libya, and – especially – Saudi Arabia, they would still hate us. We have poisoned that well. I understand that if we didn’t reflexively back Israel, they would still hate us. Still, I don’t think that they hate us for who we are, I think that they hate us for what we have done – stationing troops in Islamic countries, their countries, among other things – and that has informed what they think of us.

I also think that we all make ad hominem arguments where we argue that the person is wrong because of who they are, not what they have said that might be wrong. I get five emails a day telling me about some stupid thing a Conservative has said like Obama being wrong about Libya because he is a Muslim. Aside from the fact that Obama isn’t a Muslim, why can’t a Muslim be right about Libya? But of those five emails, usually in one or two of them, it seems to me that what the Conservative is saying, maybe inexpertly saying, is sensible. The assumption of the email is that what is being said must be wrong because the guy saying it is a Conservative.

The ad hominem argument that the bumper sticker tries to make – the guy who put it on, really – is that  My Insight is good because Al-Qaeda doesn’t like it. Of course, everything that Al-Qaeda doesn’t like is not necessarily good. A-Qaeda doesn’t like killing male babies, that doesn’t make killing male babies good. Saying Al-Qaeda hates this car is not really an  argument and looking at it angered me.

We all see ourselves in others. Sometimes we see what we know about ourselves, sometimes we see what we didn’t notice or have forgotten, often we see what we find hard to see in ourselves. I am a big believer that projection is a way to look back at the projector. Why I was angry over  Al-Qaeda hates this is, eventually, more interesting, enlightening, and – surprise – more disturbing than if the bumper sticker is accurate or why the Honda guy put the bumper sticker on in the first place.

In this case, what bothered me is the assumptive superiority of the Honda guy. The assumption that what he had to say about Al-Qaeda and his car is of interest, or, even, importance. It was much easier to see that assumptive superiority on the bumper of the Insight than in myself and turning that thought back on myself gives me the shivers. The self-reproach of that assumptive superiority makes it hard to accept it in myself and easy to be irate with the Honda guy. That is the yin.

The yang is, if I didn’t have that assumptive superiority, I wouldn’t have a blog and I probably wouldn’t even pick up a camera. That yin and yang are the struggle when doing this blog and showing my pictures. I think it is a struggle we all have.

Even with all of that, I don’t think that Al-Qaeda hates the Honda Insight, and yeah, they probably do hate the guy driving it.

Soccer and the above average grandchild

Charlotte -0015Our granddaughter, Charlotte, was in a soccer playoff game Saturday. Her team, the Mustaches, were playing the Mustangs in the semi-final. The program is through the San Anselmo Recreation Department and as the girls got together just before the game, I remembered that it has been at least thirty years since I have been to a girls soccer game.

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I have seen alot of women’s soccer since, including a couple of World Cup games, but this is a different game. The girls are just starting to learn to play position so there is alot more following the ball and moving the ball down field rather than passing. There was also alot less follow up when they got close to the goal. My daughter, Samantha, said They have to teach the girls to attack the goal, to take shots, and they have to teach the boys to pass. I can believe it.

The game started with the Mustaches playing into the sun and they were scored on early. .

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Also, pretty early in the game, one of the girls got hurt. I was impressed with the tenderness and compassion everybody showed (including the girls on the other team).

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As the game went on, the Mustaches started to dominate but they were unable to convert that to a score and lost one zip. Just like her mother used to be, more than thirty years ago, Charlotte was the star of the game. I hope every grandfather that was watching felt the same way, but I don’t see how they could.

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In the end, after they had lost and I saw Charlotte trying to hold back her tears and it hit home how much she was invested in winning, I thought of how much little girls playing soccer – any sport really – is changing the world. I remember a soccer game between Samantha’s soccer team and the parents and talking to an older woman who remarked, The women I know who went to college after Title Nine was passed are just less afraid to take risks. I hope so.

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OK, this is truly nuts

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In order to get place names, I used Google Earth while writing my post on going to the Schoodic Peninsula. When I get on Google Earth, it is pretty hard to get off, it is just so fascinating. In this case, I started trying to find a contemporary house Michele and I saw while driving around Corea. On a whim I decided to see if I could get a Street View and I COULD!

Google has Street Views of Corea Maine! (BTW, I am capitalizing Street View because anything that amazing should start with a capitalized letter.)

That is really crazy. Corea seems like an out-of-the-way place to me and somebody from Google – or somebody hired by Google – has driven down the road taking pictures. But, to be fair, Corea is a tourist destination, so, if you are completely jaded by technology, you could say that taking pictures of a picturesque Maine village does make some sense. I thought what is the most out-of-the-way place they might have street view. How about Gerlach, Nevada?

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Here is Bruno’s on the main drag and here is – wait for it –

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the Senior Center on one of the back roads in GERLACH!

I don’t know – I don’t think anybody really knows – have many miles of paved roads there are in the United States, but there are alot. Somewhere over 2.5 million miles. I think that it is very possible that Google has photographed all of them.

I tried the Courthouse in Dayton Tennessee, it is there (without the banner that said Read your Bible).

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Central BBQ in Memphis, a barbecue place Michele and I especially liked? Sure!

Central BarbecueThe house where I grew up? Of course, and they have recently changed the paint color to a new color I find pretty unattractive.

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Obviously, I was making it too easy. What about downtown Tamanrasset in the Ahaggar Range in southern Algeria? (A place I dearly want to go and had tickets to go to when the 1st Gulf War scared me away.)  No Street View, finally. It turns out that there are places on earth that Google hasn’t sent a team to get street views…YET.

As an aside, I couldn’t find the Corea house on street view but I did find it by Googling Modern Corea House. It turns out that  bruce norelius studios in Los Angele designed it. Check out their houses, they are all great.

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Down East and back east

3rd Day-9807 Our plan – my plan, really – for our last day, was to get up early, wander around the Schoodic Peninsula down to Acadia National Park, have a late breakfast, and drive south to Boston. But, at dawn, the light was flat, the air outside was cold, and our bed was warm. We got a late start.

However, the late start did allow us to have a nice breakfast at the Bluff House Inn – included in the price – and we got a couple of pointers from Libby the Inn Keeper. Driving down to Winter Harbor; the sky was heavy and grey, the trees on the narrow road silent in the gloom.

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When we we first got to the water at Winter Harbor, the air was cold, with no wind,  and the sea calm. The no wind, calm sea, was somewhat of a surprise; at home, the sea is never calm and my idea of the North Atlantic is  based on the books The Cruel Sea and The Good Shepherd in which the weather is nasty and the waves high and relentless. Then I remember that the Viking longboats were – mostly – oar driven which would indicate that the wind was often calm.

What ever the reason, the sea was glassy, reflecting a sky that was still grey, but becoming more lively, and I kept thinking what spectacular sunrise pictures I could have gotten if there had been a sunrise. I didn’t Google it, but there must be a million of them on the internet. 3rd Day-9814

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Near the boat ramp, was a granite sculpture, typical of the kind we have seen in various places over the last couple of days. I have no idea what the deal is – whether there is a state program or just a series of unrelated pieces of art using granite – but they are always a nice addition.

The light was flat, but the coastline was still stunning – dramatic, magnificent, sensational, choose your own superlative –  and reminded me more of a Sierra lakeshore than the North Atlantic coastline of my imagination. 3rd Day-9827The popular misconception is that National Parks are put where the landscape is at its most spectacular. But, in most cases, that is not true; National parks are put in the left over areas and the spectacularness is a byproduct. And the spectacularness is a byproduct may be wrong, also; spectacularness is probably the product of any wild landscapeI suspect that Manhattan Island would be pretty spectacular if it were completely wild today.This is not to diminish Acadia and this coastline, it is jaw droppingly beautiful – rugged and, on a day like today, strangely soft – but it is only here because it was left over. Driving here, there were hundreds of places, coves, rivers, estuaries that would have been just as stunning if they were still natural. All that said, this coastline is here and we were very happy for it.

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3rd Day-9836At one point, we were on a desolated spit of rock, listening to wavelets lapping the shore, hearing the offshore voices of lobsterman pulling up their traps, when a busload of kids arrived. It was amazing how the energy changed; from quiet at the end of the continent to the cacophony of the classroom. The tinkle of young voices filled the silence and the bright colors of their clothes enlivened the landscape. 3rd Day-9845

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3rd Day-9871 To a Californian, what is surprising about the Acadia tip of the Schoodic Peninsula is how densely it is populated, how every habitable cove is inhabited (and has been for – probably – almost 200 years). We were completely alone – looking with lust at the round, shore rocks, protected by the sign that said Don’t take rocks – then we drove around a corner and were at at Wonsqueak Harbor where the Bennett Twine House, on  +/-  1 acres and 460′ of shoreline, is for sale for only $450,000. 3rd Day-9877 Every cove, every inlet, in this part of Maine seems to have a working harbor. On the short drive from the Bennett Twine House to Corea, we drove through Birch Harbor and Prospect Harbor. They are not as quaint as our destination, Corea, so we passed them by (thinking that, in California, they would have been the most picturesque place within a hundred miles). I think that it is another misconception of Coastal Maine that there are working harbors and tourist – summer home – harbors, South Bristol and Corea, both reputed to be fishing villages where people really fish – lobster? -have lots of summer houses and every harbor village we drove through, supposedly non-working villages, had working lobster boats moored in their harbors. However, just like South Bristol, Corea is movie-set quaint.

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3rd Day-9894 We wandered into a big storage shed full of lobster bait from Canada. Looking at all that bait for this little harbor convinced me that these guys are feeding the lobsters, they are farming them. Maybe not officially, maybe not technically, but just as much as cowboys in the west are farming cattle on rangeland. I bet there are more lobsters in the nearby Gouldsboro Bay today than there were 200 years ago (Michele says that the lobstermen told her that there used to be more lobsters, but that still seems like a huge amount of bait for this small place). 3rd Day-9890 We were four or five hours – maybe five or six by the way we would probably go  – north of Boston and hadn’t had lunch, so it was time to start back. First north – North?? – to Highway 1 and then southwest to Boston. I drove and Michele started looking for a place to have lunch. We stopped just past the bridge over Sullivan Straights for Michele to use the viewpoint restroom – which was locked so she resorted to the behind a tree method – and I took what I thought might be my last inlet-with-trees-in-color shot of the trip. Down east-9905-2We passed by Chester Pike’s Galley and I pulled in. Michele said No, keep going there is a restaurant that looks good on the Hancock Peninsula, I figured it would be nearby last night’s disappearing Hancock. As we got close, Google showed it to be in the middle of a forest which did not look promising, but we noodled around and found it right next to the No Frills Oil Co., Inc.

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Down east-9982Michele pitched Let’s stop at Eventide, the oyster restaurant that Warren suggested in Portland. We can get oysters and a glass of champagne to celebrate our twentieth. The little bit of Portland that we drove through was utterly different than everyplace else we saw in Maine. It was urban and gritty, busy. It seems that artists and foodies are moving in bringing change and excitement. Eventide was typical of the New Portland and was the perfect place to take a break. The centerpiece of the restaurant is a concrete counter embedded with a big hunk of granite, on the granite is a pile of ice with various oysters. Michele was giddy. We – I should say Michele, here, as I was just a bystander – settled on four each of three different kinds of oysters from the Damariscotta River Estuary. They were firm shell, large, light in texture, and high salinity and, yet, each one was different, the champagne was dry, we had a side order of tasty housemade kimchi and we were very happy.

Down east-9994 Down east-9988 Down east-9996Michele and I finally did make it to Boston, in the dark, and went straight to East Ocean City, for our official Chinese meal that we have to have on every trip. Part of our reasoning – justification? – in going to a Chinese restaurant on a trip is that it takes us out of the culture. In a Muslim country, like Morocco, we can have pork, in India, beef. During the all pervasive Ramadan in Indonesia, we could eat lunch – in broad daylight – guilt free. In Boston, the local Ramadan was the World Series and we expected the restaurant wouldn’t be too full because of game six.

It was empty, except for four or five waiters who were watching the game on one of the place’s three TVs (one of the other TVs seemed to be hardwired to a How-great-is-the-Chinese-Military channel with lots of movies of Chinese war exercises). Later a Chinese couple came in and he watched the game while she watched her iPhone. Over our appetizer of Barbecued Spareribs, we watched Boston score three runs in the third inning. We had Lobster with Vermicelli Hotpot and Buddha’s Delight Vegetables while Boston scored three more runs in the fourth inning.

Another reason that it is so much fun to go to a Chinese restaurant on a trip is that, in different places, the Chinese food is different in ways that is a caricature of that place’s regular food. In Vicksburg, Mississippi – my choice for worst ever Chinese – it was deep fat fried, in Guatemala – Michele’s choice for worst – everything was cut into teeny-tiny little tasteless pieces.

By the seventh inning stretch, an older American couple came in, sitting so as to not see the TV, the Chinese couple left and so did we. The next morning, we flew back to California, hungry for more of Maine.

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First Day 

Thoughts on coming back to California

 

Day two: leaving New England and going Down East

2nd Day-9670Back in Maine, we got to the  Damariscotta River area in the dark, stumbling into the Newcastle Publick House – featuring organic, natural, wild and local produce and seafood, including local oysters – where we had, surprise, oysters and, actual surprise, duck pizza. The oysters were great, the pizza a disappointment. One of the problems with traveling the way we do is that we don’t know, exactly, where we are going to end up so we are often looking for a place to stay after dinner, at the dinner table. Smartphoning around, we found the nearby Brannon Bunker Inn where we spent the night. It turned out to be a good choice.

The next morning was bright and clear after a night, we were told, that had dropped to 22°F. The Inn Mistress gave us lots of good, free, tourist advice along with our free continental breakfast, and we were off. In the dark, we had snuck into an almost archetypically picturesque part of Maine. Little villages, narrow lanes – lanes sounds more accurate than roads, but they were really roads going somewhere – rocky coastlines, and perfect cemeteries. OK, every place in New England has perfect cemeteries but one of these dated back to a shipwreck in 1815 (Halloween so fits here).
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But the best shot was a video taken by Michele as the bridge opened.

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We thought South Bristol and its inhabitants were charming but I am not so sure that the feeling was reciprocal.

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When we first started talking about going to Maine, we thought lighthouses along with lobster, but we kinda forgot about it until we wandered down to the tip of the Pemaquid Peninsula and there was the Pemaquid Point Light Station in its austere elegance.

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The building I liked even better was the bell tower built before the days of the fog horn (which I think of as an iconic sound of San Francisco).

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About this time, Michele said, Enough dilly dallying around, it is lunch time, we’ve got to go to the oyster place we saw last night. Last night, we had passed what we suspected would be the holy grail of oysters. A barn, an oyster place – the sign said Oysters Wine – within a 100 yards, or so, of Wiley Cove, itself,  in the Damariscotta River Estuary. Presumably this would be the home of the Wiley Point oyster (Crassotrea virginica). When we got there, I’m pretty sure that the car hadn’t even stopped rolling before Michele lunged for the door.

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But the sitting-in-the-backyard, eating oysters freshly-plucked-from-the-water season was over. This was the kind of place that sold high-end, locally-made, souvenirs – I am sure that is not the right word – like hand woven blankets for $660.00(US), but no oysters… after Columbus Day. All we – when I say we here, I really mean Michele –  could do was talk about oysters which Michele and Warren did for what seemed like an hour.

2nd Day-9758We did find out that The New York Times had gone on an oyster quest some time ago and the winner was a Damariscotta River Estuary oyster that, for some strange reason, they ate at the Raffles Hotel in Singapore. We also got some pointers on good local restaurants. The best one which had entrees for only $95.00 and would have cost $400.00 in Manhattan, we skipped, but we did go to a local, picturesque pub for a late lunch of oysters with a beer (to drown our sorrows).

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Then it was north – really mostly east – towards Acadia, passing one picturesque town after another. Most of these were working towns or working small cities where acual people lived (actual people that ate alot of potatoe chips, in some cases).

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Every time we crossed a river on a bridge, or an estuary on a high bridge, we would both go Oh! Look, and keep driving into the fading light thinking OK, we’ve got to come back.

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When we rounded a corner and saw the Penobscot Narrows Bridge, we were both stunned. It was totally unexpected. Scrambling to find out what it was, we read, probably on Michele’s iPhone, that it was the highest bridge observatory in the world. Later, on the interwebs, I read that, as a homage to the  Washington Monument which is partially built with granite from nearby, the towers are built in the same shape. But, for me – as a Californian who had, only weeks before, driven across the new Bay Bridge that took twenty four years  to design and build – the biggest shock was that this bridge was planned, funded, designed, permitted and built in only 42 months. Amazing!

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We ran for a short while in the twilight

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and then a long while in the dark. I was surprised that it was getting dark so soon, thinking that the days would be longer this far north. Michele reminded me that that was only the case in the summer and we were far from summer at two days before Halloween. We had no idea where we were going to stay, I was thinking maybe a cheap motel in Ellsworth but Michele thought it was too far from our – hoped for – final destination. She suggested Hancock but, when we got there, it didn’t seem to really exist. There was, however a Bed and Breakfast, The Bluff House Inn, on the Schoodic Peninsula which was our destination in the morning.

It was inexpensive and very cute so we felt we had done well. The Inn Mistress said that there were only two restaurants nearby – nearby being a thirty mile radius – one, not very memorable diner, and a local pub which was where she would go. Driving by the diner, it looked less than memorable, so we choose the pub and had our first truly mediocre meal of the trip. We were in bed early, ready to get up early on our last day.

First Day 

Thoughts on coming back to California

 Last Day